Behind the Doors of GHH

Behind every door at GHH, there’s a young person rewriting their story.

The name Genesis means new beginning. When we named our son Genesis, that’s exactly what we envisioned, a life full of new beginnings, full of hope. I had no idea that the beginning would also include deep sorrow. I didn’t expect that my son’s name would echo through a mission bigger than I ever imagined, in a new state, impacting thousands of lives.

But here we are.

Losing Genesis shattered me. But in that pain I’ve spent every day since working to create new beginnings for others.

One of our youth came into our program with four goals — not dreams of fame or luxury, but basic human rights and needs:

  1. Obtain his birth certificate — It had been four years of asking for help. His parents rights had been terminated, and he was born in a different state. Without it, he couldn’t get an ID, a job, a savings account, or even his Social Security card.
  2. Get his driver’s permit — But again, no ID, no permit.
  3. Get braces — He struggled with self-esteem and bullying, and while his insurance had a grant for orthodontic care, no one had ever taken him to the appointment or helped with the paperwork.
  4. Get a job — Which, of course, wasn’t possible without the ID and Social.

Within three months at GHH, we flew him to get his birth certificate. Then came his Social, his ID, and his permit. We drove him to his ortho consultation, helped him submit the grant, and just recently his braces were installed. He also got his first job working at Camp Independence.

What he’d been waiting for four years, we accomplished together in 90 days.

He rewrote a story of rejection, of feeling invisible, of being stuck. Now, he’s stepping into a story of identity, purpose, and possibility.

This is The Living Genesis.

People ask me all the time: “How did you get this kid — who hadn’t been to school in years from 0 credits to 4 in 3 months?
The answer is simple: we showed up for him so he felt empowered to show up for himself!

We offer more than programs. We offer presence.
We’re not just staff. We’re aunties, godmothers, big cousins. (One student even calls me Grandma, I guess my gray hairs are finally making their debut!)

They’re not just clients. They’re family.
We love them hard, hold them accountable, and remind them who they are until they believe it for themselves.

Because that’s what healing looks like and that’s how transformation begins. Grief is the only emotion that doesn’t fade with time. It simply changes shape and in that space, gratitude begins to grow. Gratitude for the people we’ve lost, for the lessons pain has taught us, and for the chance to turn sorrow into purpose.

Every smile, every success, every “new beginning” at GHH is a reminder that gratitude and grief can coexist. Remember that beauty can rise even from heartbreak.

And for that, I am profoundly thankful.

With Love,

Fritzie

Leave a Reply

Discover more from The Living Genesis

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading